Relationship Structure
Dec. 5th, 2014 05:07 pmLet me start off by saying this is a happy post for everyone involved, since the title could make it seem otherwise. There have been many very positive things going on in my life lately, and in
indicoyote’s as well. A few of those events have lead to us realizing that we should make the poly nature of our relationship, and the details of that, more explicit, as it’s never been covered in a place like this.
I also want things nice and clear to prevent any worry or confusion about the fact that I have a girlfriend now. I’m dating
allyfox (also known as Illy), who is a completely awesome person that I’ve known and cared for for longer than I’ve even been aware of this community. There’s nothing at all wrong between Indi and I, ve’s fully aware and supportive, this is just something I should have done with Ally long ago~
In any case, the main point is that no one in our relationship grid (which is at four currently) is required to be exclusive. They may not be looking for anyone else, but that’s up to them. This is kind of a minor clarification in some ways, but it feels like an important one still, so that no one is accidentally treated as fully off-limits.
I think that’s pretty straight-forward, but I am certainly fine handling questions if anyone has any, and Indi is too :>
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I also want things nice and clear to prevent any worry or confusion about the fact that I have a girlfriend now. I’m dating
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In any case, the main point is that no one in our relationship grid (which is at four currently) is required to be exclusive. They may not be looking for anyone else, but that’s up to them. This is kind of a minor clarification in some ways, but it feels like an important one still, so that no one is accidentally treated as fully off-limits.
I think that’s pretty straight-forward, but I am certainly fine handling questions if anyone has any, and Indi is too :>